-New Urban TALK- Girlfriends Panel Discussion: To Speak, or Not to Speak; Would You Keep Silent If You Think A Friend Is In A Bad Relationship?

Shooting the messenger: when and why friends are (rightfully) shy to intervene in matters of love

As part of this evening's New Urban Talk post, NUY 40+ is spotlighting an interesting panel series from The Steve Show, featuring a discussion on friendship and boundaries; the question on today's panel clip is whether or not it's ever okay for girlfriends to intervene if they feel a friend is in a toxic relationship with a mate. The panel features R&B singer Kerri Hilson, "Step by Step" actress Christine Lakin, and Dr. Tiffanie Davis Henry, as they weigh in when you can, should, or should not share feelings of concern with a friend. Check out the spirited discussion below:

Where do your views lie on the topic? When it comes to friends in sticky relationship situations, do you exercise the right to speak? Or not to speak?